We often hear comments about how infants bring a sense of wonder back into our lives. With teenagers, however, the focus tends to be on how they irritate us and less on how their behaviour can remind us of what is truly important in life.
What is your teen doing that you haven’t done in a long, long time – and maybe wish you were?
– taking myself and my feelings really, really seriously.
– fighting for my right to live how I want.
– caring a great deal about my friends.
– questioning authority.
– seeking excitement.
– experimenting with how I look.
– wondering who I am.
– taking risks.
– sleeping until I no longer feel tired.
– eating what I really fancy.
– courting new friendships.
– testing limits.
– acting on impulse.
– learning by doing.
– going for what I want.
– winging it.
– giggling.
– trying new things.
– railing at life’s injustices.
– believing that a better world is within our grasp.
Thinking of the young people in your life, what can you add to this list of important things that teenagers do?
We asked on social media what people enjoyed about their preteen and teen years and the comments echoed the above list. Here are just a few -please do add yours.
“When people ask if you could go back to being a teen, what would you do differently – having a teen is your chance to do just that, guide them past the mistakes you made, and support them with their own.” Larissa, Norfolk
“I LOVE this age!
So much positivity and hope at this age. Raw emotions that show vulnerability that as adults we try and suppress. Nervous excitement about new things and the look for encouragement from us as parents or teachers.” Lizzie, Suffolk
“I absolutely love her confidence, the ability to see her own beauty and worth and celebrate her attributes without holding back.” Lynsey, Merseyside
The teenage years have their unique challenges, for the teens and their parents. As adults in a teen’s life, we can understand and support them better when we remember what it was like to be a teenager ourselves.
Our teens are great teachers. They remind us of some of the most important things in life. And they feel good when we tell them how much we learn from them. Often those things that irritate us most, could inspire us too.
We’d love to hear what your teen does that you’d like to do too.
